The BOLD (Walking Towards a Run) You know that rolling feeling in your stomach when you think about taking that action that scares you? If confidence is an ingredient of success, then what damage is that feeling doing to your chances of taking action and achieving your goal? What if you could build your confidence with […]
The Vigilance Paradox: What are You Inviting?
The BOLD (Tamp it Down) Do you feel that you are in control? The answer to that question probably has a direct and often profound effect on your behavior, your experience, and your outcomes. The more out of control we feel, the more likely we are to try to assert control. Not all methods for doing this are […]
The Echo Bounce: Inviting Perspective
The BOLD (Alone) Isolation is showing up differently than I thought it would. Most days, I’m online with clients and on the phone with friends. I go to the park three times a week to work out with my trainer and a few friends. I do what I do and most of it is pretty similar to what […]
The Abundance Fulcrum: Balancing Enough and More
The BOLD (Enough) This month, we’re going to explore the sixth principle of the Prospects of Possibility framework: Evict Insufficiency. Right now, it is tempting to focus on all the things that are insufficient because we are experiencing an unprecedented crisis. A few months ago, it was tempting to focus on insufficiency because of the contrast between […]
The Aspiration Audit: Harnessing FOMO To Design Your Best Life
The BOLD (I Could Have, You Know) When the exhausting and imperious Lady Catherine De Bourgh demands her part in the conversation in Chapter 31 of Pride And Prejudice (see the quote above), she declares that she is sure that if she had ever applied what she believes to be her considerable natural talent to […]
The River’s Flow: What Brings You to Joy?
The BOLD (Dip Your Toe in The Water) In 1927, Max Ehmann wrote a poem called Desiderata. The last line is excerpted below as our quote for this article. In Desiderata, Ehmann lays out the basic building blocks of a good life. What are the basic building blocks of your best life? I suggest that they are the things […]
The Habit Scaffold: Supporting Your Desired Future
The BOLD (I Call This Meeting to Order) This past Sunday, our family gathered around the dining room table and I convened a Household Meeting. Despite wiggling, playing on phones because I was taking too long to take notes and wandering around the room (yes, I saw you, husband mine), we were able to re-negotiate our […]
The Pivot Price: Why Are You So Tired?
The BOLD (Sleepy?) At the end of last week, I realized that I was exhausted. And I noticed that many of my friends, family, and clients were exhausted as well. What, I wondered, was at the root of this exhaustion? We are all having a personal version of a global experience. That means that there are things we […]
The Motto Code: Are You Living YOUR Values?
The BOLD (Deep Courage) Dreams thrive on challenge. If there were no challenge, there would be no reason to be innovative and resourceful and daring. And dreams love it when we are innovative and resourceful and daring. Dreams require courage. I’ve talked a lot about courage, both here and in numerous client sessions, deep conversations with friends and […]